There is a saying which is believed to be the truth which says that 'there is no thief who claims ". But there is also another story of a thief who is perhaps most well-known throughout human history. Because they always remembered the story and even mentioned as an example year after year since two thousand years ago. They are two people who were convicted and sentenced to death. But the moment of punishment is what makes the difference, even many believe could be a very valuable lesson.
The thief is two people who were crucified along with Jesus Christ two thousand years ago. They were crucified on either side of the Redeemer, flanking the position of the cross so that the three were even more beautiful to be described and further strengthened to be remembered and reflected upon men of all time.
What is interesting is their dialogue. Them in dialogue on the minute minute wait his death. Because of their position flanking Jesus, then their dialogue or sound trajectories they must pass through the Savior Jesus Christ that can be heard and listened Slamat foundation, direction and purpose of their conversation.
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Selasa, 15 November 2011
Senin, 14 November 2011
When have broken heart
No wind no rain, suddenly he's off. In fact, shortly curved yellow coconut. Hurt, for sure. The world seemed to collapse? Yes, iyalah. How can so you can immediately get up?
According to Barbara De Angelis, author of The 100 Most Asked Questions About Love, Sex, and Relationship, there are four stages of the healing process that must be traversed.
Phase 1: Feeling torn
Time: 2 weeks - 4 months
At this stage, you may be crying all day, feeling lost, helpless, lonely, loss of appetite, and even feel pain in my chest that never subsides. Is the most difficult stage in the breakup. You feel the pain will never end. But you are wrong. You will be through it well, even faster, when doing the following things:
* Have a good cry, because the longer you want to internalize it, the longer it will end anyway.
* Make a solid schedule of activities. Get busy yourself and spend time with friends and family.
* Exercise and eat regularly. Keep your body health. The more fit body, you are even more stable psychologically.
* Avoid seeing or talking to a former spouse. It does not matter so much you want to call and hear his voice. Do not ever do! The more often you meet, the longer the healing process.
Phase 2: Adjustment
Time: 2-6 months
At this stage, you will be able to talk and think about the former without the hurt and anger. You can think clearly. You no longer feel as victims and not often cry or be sad anymore. Even if still crying, its frequency is once a week. You will only be sad when all of a sudden back down memory lane you and him.
You begin to rediscover an independent personality. You can have fun again and found life as a single. It could even begin to notice the opposite sex is attractive. You also can judge clearly what is wrong in the relationship over the years. Maybe in the end, you feel lucky to escape the bondage of his love which blinds the eyes.
Phase 3: Healing
6 months - 1 year
Life has begun to normal again. You've been through periods of transition. In this phase, you may have been involved in new relationships. If not, has emerged a desire to start a new relationship. The problem with the former also has successfully completed well.
In this stage, the pain was gone. You can take lessons from the events experienced. You feel better, even more optimistic about the future. Occasional memory of the former might be tempting. However, it no longer makes you sad.
Phase 4: Recovery
Time 1 -2 Years
At this stage, you have 100 percent clean from viruses heartbreak. You have been steadily looking to the future better. You now have a new social environment, new friends, and love-new love. Yup, you're ready to love and be loved again. No longer will people who will ask for your relationship with your ex. Incident, you make as a very valuable lesson to forge new relationships.
According to Barbara De Angelis, author of The 100 Most Asked Questions About Love, Sex, and Relationship, there are four stages of the healing process that must be traversed.
Phase 1: Feeling torn
Time: 2 weeks - 4 months
At this stage, you may be crying all day, feeling lost, helpless, lonely, loss of appetite, and even feel pain in my chest that never subsides. Is the most difficult stage in the breakup. You feel the pain will never end. But you are wrong. You will be through it well, even faster, when doing the following things:
* Have a good cry, because the longer you want to internalize it, the longer it will end anyway.
* Make a solid schedule of activities. Get busy yourself and spend time with friends and family.
* Exercise and eat regularly. Keep your body health. The more fit body, you are even more stable psychologically.
* Avoid seeing or talking to a former spouse. It does not matter so much you want to call and hear his voice. Do not ever do! The more often you meet, the longer the healing process.
Phase 2: Adjustment
Time: 2-6 months
At this stage, you will be able to talk and think about the former without the hurt and anger. You can think clearly. You no longer feel as victims and not often cry or be sad anymore. Even if still crying, its frequency is once a week. You will only be sad when all of a sudden back down memory lane you and him.
You begin to rediscover an independent personality. You can have fun again and found life as a single. It could even begin to notice the opposite sex is attractive. You also can judge clearly what is wrong in the relationship over the years. Maybe in the end, you feel lucky to escape the bondage of his love which blinds the eyes.
Phase 3: Healing
6 months - 1 year
Life has begun to normal again. You've been through periods of transition. In this phase, you may have been involved in new relationships. If not, has emerged a desire to start a new relationship. The problem with the former also has successfully completed well.
In this stage, the pain was gone. You can take lessons from the events experienced. You feel better, even more optimistic about the future. Occasional memory of the former might be tempting. However, it no longer makes you sad.
Phase 4: Recovery
Time 1 -2 Years
At this stage, you have 100 percent clean from viruses heartbreak. You have been steadily looking to the future better. You now have a new social environment, new friends, and love-new love. Yup, you're ready to love and be loved again. No longer will people who will ask for your relationship with your ex. Incident, you make as a very valuable lesson to forge new relationships.
Minggu, 13 November 2011
5 Ways to Prevent big Stomach
5 Ways to Prevent big Stomach
You have just bought a new dress, a dress with a material that fits in pretty well. The plan, you would wear to the wedding of a friend. But when trying on clothes, you could only stare in horror the mirror, look at the abdominal area that swell and bulge. Finally, the dress was not so used, and only kept in the closet, than you dare wear it then considered was pregnant by the friends who greeted!
Distended stomach can indeed be a disaster for itself and one reason is food. Therefore, take the following five quick way to prevent the distended come back.
1. Choose foods rich in potassium
Potassium helps maintain fluid balance in the body, so it is not easy to stomach bloating. There are so many foods with high potassium content, which could be an option everyday. Among these are melon, mango, until vegetables such as spinach, tomatoes, asparagus, and beans.
2. Avoid soda
Drinks can also make your stomach more distended. Jeannie Gazzaniga-Moloo, RD, spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association, recommends that you drink water more often and stay away from carbonated beverages. Therefore, the type of last drink can make the stomach so bloated that its shape so bulge.
You have just bought a new dress, a dress with a material that fits in pretty well. The plan, you would wear to the wedding of a friend. But when trying on clothes, you could only stare in horror the mirror, look at the abdominal area that swell and bulge. Finally, the dress was not so used, and only kept in the closet, than you dare wear it then considered was pregnant by the friends who greeted!
Distended stomach can indeed be a disaster for itself and one reason is food. Therefore, take the following five quick way to prevent the distended come back.
1. Choose foods rich in potassium
Potassium helps maintain fluid balance in the body, so it is not easy to stomach bloating. There are so many foods with high potassium content, which could be an option everyday. Among these are melon, mango, until vegetables such as spinach, tomatoes, asparagus, and beans.
2. Avoid soda
Drinks can also make your stomach more distended. Jeannie Gazzaniga-Moloo, RD, spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association, recommends that you drink water more often and stay away from carbonated beverages. Therefore, the type of last drink can make the stomach so bloated that its shape so bulge.
Sabtu, 12 November 2011
5 billionaire who drop out
School is of course important, at least as a handle for a career in the future. However, when you are forced to quit school due to some reason, does not mean you do not have the opportunity to progress and success. Of the five figure this billionaires below and some even dropped out of junior high school. However, persistence and hard work to make their entry in the list of richest people in Forbes magazine. Dared to imitate their steps?
Richard Branson
This eccentric man no longer continue the school at the age of 16 years. At that time he founded the record store with home delivery, which later became the record companies and music stores Virgin Records. Branson's current wealth is not only derived from the music store, but also about 200 other companies, including airlines, music festivals, and cell phones, which are spread across 30 countries. Net profit is estimated to 6.8 billion dollars.
Carl Lindner, Jr..
This billionaire dropped out of school because they have to work to send milk to dairy processing plant owned by his family. In 1984, Lindner bought Chiquita Brands International (formerly known as United Fruit Company and United Brands Company) and run it until 2001. Clean up an estimated wealth of 1.7 billion dollars worth.
Richard Branson
This eccentric man no longer continue the school at the age of 16 years. At that time he founded the record store with home delivery, which later became the record companies and music stores Virgin Records. Branson's current wealth is not only derived from the music store, but also about 200 other companies, including airlines, music festivals, and cell phones, which are spread across 30 countries. Net profit is estimated to 6.8 billion dollars.
Carl Lindner, Jr..
This billionaire dropped out of school because they have to work to send milk to dairy processing plant owned by his family. In 1984, Lindner bought Chiquita Brands International (formerly known as United Fruit Company and United Brands Company) and run it until 2001. Clean up an estimated wealth of 1.7 billion dollars worth.
let's starts on business
Cash daily headlines yesterday reported about the demonstration of thousands of employees SingTel requires the enactment of employee-employer agreements that have been agreed.
A day earlier, on the same day, his headline reads "After Indosat, XL Axiata also reduce the hundreds of permanent staff".
What is this?
Telecommunications business field, which in recent years is good-good, is rapidly growing, problems with employees?
I am not here to defend the employee or the company. I just want to tell, I've been in the position of employees who are suddenly laid off. The company I worked for seven years since after graduating, was suddenly closed by the head office in Houston, United States. The announcement that the company will be closed only one month before the date of closure. What we want? Demo to the central office? What are our rights? Actions Houston headquarters to branch offices Jakarta when it might be the same as management shut unprofitable divisions and cost. It is normal in the industrial world.
A day earlier, on the same day, his headline reads "After Indosat, XL Axiata also reduce the hundreds of permanent staff".
What is this?
Telecommunications business field, which in recent years is good-good, is rapidly growing, problems with employees?
I am not here to defend the employee or the company. I just want to tell, I've been in the position of employees who are suddenly laid off. The company I worked for seven years since after graduating, was suddenly closed by the head office in Houston, United States. The announcement that the company will be closed only one month before the date of closure. What we want? Demo to the central office? What are our rights? Actions Houston headquarters to branch offices Jakarta when it might be the same as management shut unprofitable divisions and cost. It is normal in the industrial world.
Jumat, 21 Oktober 2011
How to Think Positive
Hi! You must know that to live a successful and happy can be achieved by positive thinking. Maybe my friends had never heard of this good advice from a friend, thinking positifkolega tips, books, journals up of the famous motivator. But how many of you who still can not actually do this in everyday lifestyle! Ntah as confused or still asleep with the old mindset that tends to negative. Well, this will be shared tips on how to develop a positive mindset that is always circulating in the style of your everyday life. The trick, of course with by identifying the characteristics of people who think positive mindset. Let us try to emulate his mind.
Mario Teguh - Perasaan lebih rendah
Adik-adikku yang impiannya besar,
Jika ada di dalam kegalauanmu itu, perasaan lebih rendah daripada mereka yang lebih berpengalaman daripadamu, maka bersegeralah bertindak, dan banyak-banyaklah melakukan kebaikan yang bisa kau lakukan.
Satu-satunya cara untuk menjadi berpengalaman, adalah melakukan.
...
Tanda bahwa engkau terlambat atau kurang bertindak, adalah hal-hal yang tadinya SEBAIKNYA kau lakukan, berubah menjadi HARUS kau lakukan.
Engkau jiwa muda yang menolak diperlakukan kurang dari terhormat, maka pantaskanlah dirimu bagi penghormatan.
Segera, lakukanlah yang SEBAIKNYA kau lakukan, sebelum ia menjadi KEHARUSAN.
You can do it. You are the boss of your life.
Buatlah orang-tuamu bangga!
Mario Teguh - Loving you all as always
Jika ada di dalam kegalauanmu itu, perasaan lebih rendah daripada mereka yang lebih berpengalaman daripadamu, maka bersegeralah bertindak, dan banyak-banyaklah melakukan kebaikan yang bisa kau lakukan.
Satu-satunya cara untuk menjadi berpengalaman, adalah melakukan.
...
Tanda bahwa engkau terlambat atau kurang bertindak, adalah hal-hal yang tadinya SEBAIKNYA kau lakukan, berubah menjadi HARUS kau lakukan.
Engkau jiwa muda yang menolak diperlakukan kurang dari terhormat, maka pantaskanlah dirimu bagi penghormatan.
Segera, lakukanlah yang SEBAIKNYA kau lakukan, sebelum ia menjadi KEHARUSAN.
You can do it. You are the boss of your life.
Buatlah orang-tuamu bangga!
Mario Teguh - Loving you all as always
Mario Teguh - Pasangan yang saling merendahkan
Mengapakah ada pasangan - yang seharusnya sepanjang hidup itu, bertengkar dan saling merendahkan, mencari kesalahan, dan bermuslihat membuktikan keburukan satu sama lain?
Saling marah dan membenci bukanlah jalan hidup yang baik dan membahagiakan.
Marilah kita memilih untuk memaafkan dengan tulus dan mesra, dan meneruskan kehidupan dengan mensyukuri kebaikan dan pengorbanan satu sama lain.
...
Janganlah kita mementingkan merasa benar di atas kesalahan dan kesedihan kekasih hati kita.
Kehidupan ini untuk berbahagia, bukan untuk saling melukai hati.
Andalah yang melengkapi di mana dia kurang, dan Andalah yang menguatkan diri baginya, di saat dia lemah.
Jadilah seindah-indahnya kekasih.
Mario Teguh
Saling marah dan membenci bukanlah jalan hidup yang baik dan membahagiakan.
Marilah kita memilih untuk memaafkan dengan tulus dan mesra, dan meneruskan kehidupan dengan mensyukuri kebaikan dan pengorbanan satu sama lain.
...
Janganlah kita mementingkan merasa benar di atas kesalahan dan kesedihan kekasih hati kita.
Kehidupan ini untuk berbahagia, bukan untuk saling melukai hati.
Andalah yang melengkapi di mana dia kurang, dan Andalah yang menguatkan diri baginya, di saat dia lemah.
Jadilah seindah-indahnya kekasih.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - menghormati telapak tanganmu
MULAILAH DENGAN MENGHORMATI TELAPAK TANGANMU
Untukmu yang sedang gelisah dengan perasaan tak bertenaga, dan tak jelas ingin sedih atau marah, dan tak jelas apa yang sesungguhnya kau inginkan, sini … dekatkanlah dirimu kepadaku …
... Lihatlah bagian dalam dari telapak tangan kananmu.
Perhatikanlah, telapak itulah yang akan kau gunakan untuk menyambut ucapan selamat dari ribuan orang yang menyalamimu saat engkau menjadi sesuatu di masa depan nanti.
Perhatikanlah lekat-lekat …
Tidakkah kau merasa bahwa telapak tangan itu bukan telapak tangan biasa.
Jika kau bebaskan dia, dan jika kau ijinkan dia memilih yang bisa dipegangnya – dia akan memilih memegang erat hal-hal penting dalam pekerjaan yang baik bagi hati dan kehidupanmu.
Tanganmulah yang sesungguhnya menghubungkanmu dengan kehidupan ini.
Maka janganlah kau paksa dia menyentuh hal-hal yang tak suci dan yang tak pantas bagi kebesaran diri, nama, dan masa depanmu.
Adikku, ingatlah ini …
Engkau bukan jiwa biasa.
Jika tidak, mengapakah engkau gelisah dalam perlakuan orang lain yang belum sepenuhnya menghargaimu?
Mulailah dengan menghormati telapak tanganmu.
Dan biarlah dia menjadi wakil bagi kebaikan hatimu, pelaksana bagi kejernihan pikiranmu, dan pembuka bagi semua pintu kemungkinan baik di masa depanmu.
Mario Teguh
Untukmu yang sedang gelisah dengan perasaan tak bertenaga, dan tak jelas ingin sedih atau marah, dan tak jelas apa yang sesungguhnya kau inginkan, sini … dekatkanlah dirimu kepadaku …
... Lihatlah bagian dalam dari telapak tangan kananmu.
Perhatikanlah, telapak itulah yang akan kau gunakan untuk menyambut ucapan selamat dari ribuan orang yang menyalamimu saat engkau menjadi sesuatu di masa depan nanti.
Perhatikanlah lekat-lekat …
Tidakkah kau merasa bahwa telapak tangan itu bukan telapak tangan biasa.
Jika kau bebaskan dia, dan jika kau ijinkan dia memilih yang bisa dipegangnya – dia akan memilih memegang erat hal-hal penting dalam pekerjaan yang baik bagi hati dan kehidupanmu.
Tanganmulah yang sesungguhnya menghubungkanmu dengan kehidupan ini.
Maka janganlah kau paksa dia menyentuh hal-hal yang tak suci dan yang tak pantas bagi kebesaran diri, nama, dan masa depanmu.
Adikku, ingatlah ini …
Engkau bukan jiwa biasa.
Jika tidak, mengapakah engkau gelisah dalam perlakuan orang lain yang belum sepenuhnya menghargaimu?
Mulailah dengan menghormati telapak tanganmu.
Dan biarlah dia menjadi wakil bagi kebaikan hatimu, pelaksana bagi kejernihan pikiranmu, dan pembuka bagi semua pintu kemungkinan baik di masa depanmu.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - Doa subuh
Sahabatku yang baik hatinya,
Di Subuh yang indah ini, marilah kita tautkan hati kita kepada Tuhan, dan memohon ...
agar kita dirahmati dengan keberanian yang penting bagi ketegasan dan kesegeraan kita untuk bertindak, untuk melakukan yang selama ini kita tunda, untuk menyelesaikan yang sudah kita mulai, untuk menegakkan kebenaran, dan untuk membela hak sesama yang ternistai;
dan agar kita diberikan rasa takut yang memelihara kedekatan dan harapan bagi perlindungan dari Tuhan,
agar kita tidak sombong, agar kita memelihara kesehatan, agar kita memuliakan kebersamaan dengan keluarga, agar kita menghargai rezeki, agar kita memelihara kebaikan nama kita, dan agar kita mensyukuri kehidupan.
Aamiin
Di Subuh yang indah ini, marilah kita tautkan hati kita kepada Tuhan, dan memohon ...
agar kita dirahmati dengan keberanian yang penting bagi ketegasan dan kesegeraan kita untuk bertindak, untuk melakukan yang selama ini kita tunda, untuk menyelesaikan yang sudah kita mulai, untuk menegakkan kebenaran, dan untuk membela hak sesama yang ternistai;
dan agar kita diberikan rasa takut yang memelihara kedekatan dan harapan bagi perlindungan dari Tuhan,
agar kita tidak sombong, agar kita memelihara kesehatan, agar kita memuliakan kebersamaan dengan keluarga, agar kita menghargai rezeki, agar kita memelihara kebaikan nama kita, dan agar kita mensyukuri kehidupan.
Aamiin
Mario Teguh - Keberanian dan ketakutan
Keberanian dan rasa takut adalah dua rahmat yang saling melengkapi.
Engkau tak akan tumbuh tanpa keberanian, dan engkau tak akan selamat tanpa rasa takut.
Maka,
...
Beranikanlah dirimu, saat engkau merasa takut.
Tapi, belajarlah untuk merasa takut, saat engkau merasa berani.
Engkau tak akan tumbuh tanpa keberanian, dan engkau tak akan selamat tanpa rasa takut.
Maka,
...
Beranikanlah dirimu, saat engkau merasa takut.
Tapi, belajarlah untuk merasa takut, saat engkau merasa berani.
Mario Teguh - jangan menolak pekerjaan baru
Jika Anda hanya bersedia melakukan yang sudah bisa Anda lakukan, kapankah Anda akan mampu melakukan yang belum bisa Anda lakukan?
Maka janganlah menolak pekerjaan baru, karena itu adalah kesempatan untuk melakukan sesuatu yang berada di atas kelas kemampuan Anda saat ini.
Ingatlah, kelas Anda ditentukan oleh kelas pekerjaan Anda.
...
Dan karena Anda berhak bagi sebaik-baiknya kelas, upayakanlah.
Mario Teguh
Maka janganlah menolak pekerjaan baru, karena itu adalah kesempatan untuk melakukan sesuatu yang berada di atas kelas kemampuan Anda saat ini.
Ingatlah, kelas Anda ditentukan oleh kelas pekerjaan Anda.
...
Dan karena Anda berhak bagi sebaik-baiknya kelas, upayakanlah.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - persahabatan dan keheningan
Persahabatan Anda mendekati kesempurnaan jika keheningan bernilai lebih tinggi daripada yang Anda katakan,
dan maksud Anda berdua saling dimengerti tanpa membutuhkan pemberitahuan,
sehingga yang tersisa adalah senyum dan tawa ceria dalam mensukuri keindahan hidup.
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dan maksud Anda berdua saling dimengerti tanpa membutuhkan pemberitahuan,
sehingga yang tersisa adalah senyum dan tawa ceria dalam mensukuri keindahan hidup.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - Suami istri yang bersikap resmi
Banyak suami istri yang sangat resmi sikapnya kepada satu sama lain.
Mereka tidak berjalan bergandengan tangan, tidak saling memanggil dengan julukan yang manis, tidak memeluk atau mencium saat berpamitan, dan tidak menunjukkan tanda-tanda kangen saat bertemu setelah terpisah seharian.
Dan saat pulang dari kantor, sang suami tidak berseru lantang
... "Honey … I am home ?!"
Tidak terdengar suaranya, ... tau-tau sudah kejepit pompa air di belakang rumah.
Anda berdua menua bersama-sama, lebih mesralah.
Mario Teguh
Mereka tidak berjalan bergandengan tangan, tidak saling memanggil dengan julukan yang manis, tidak memeluk atau mencium saat berpamitan, dan tidak menunjukkan tanda-tanda kangen saat bertemu setelah terpisah seharian.
Dan saat pulang dari kantor, sang suami tidak berseru lantang
... "Honey … I am home ?!"
Tidak terdengar suaranya, ... tau-tau sudah kejepit pompa air di belakang rumah.
Anda berdua menua bersama-sama, lebih mesralah.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - Doa pagi hari
Tuhan kami Yang Maha Sejahtera,
Di awal hari yang indah ini, ijinkanlah kami memohon restu-Mu bagi kerja keras kami, yang berfokus kepada kebaikan bagi diri, keluarga, dan sesama.
Dengan nama-nama baik-Mu kami memohon,
...
agar Engkau membuka pengertian kami bagi summer-sumber rezeki yang baik,
agar Engkau mentenagai kesegeraan kami untuk bekerja keras,
agar Engkau menguatkan ketulusan dan kesabaran dalam upaya kami,
agar Engkau memudahkan tercapainya hasil yang baik dari pekerjaan kami,
agar Engkau menjadikan kami pribadi kesayangan sesama,
agar Engkau memelihara kerendahan hati kami,
dan agar Engkau menganugerahkan kepada kami keluarga yang penuh kasih dan keceriaan.
Aamiin
Di awal hari yang indah ini, ijinkanlah kami memohon restu-Mu bagi kerja keras kami, yang berfokus kepada kebaikan bagi diri, keluarga, dan sesama.
Dengan nama-nama baik-Mu kami memohon,
...
agar Engkau membuka pengertian kami bagi summer-sumber rezeki yang baik,
agar Engkau mentenagai kesegeraan kami untuk bekerja keras,
agar Engkau menguatkan ketulusan dan kesabaran dalam upaya kami,
agar Engkau memudahkan tercapainya hasil yang baik dari pekerjaan kami,
agar Engkau menjadikan kami pribadi kesayangan sesama,
agar Engkau memelihara kerendahan hati kami,
dan agar Engkau menganugerahkan kepada kami keluarga yang penuh kasih dan keceriaan.
Aamiin
Kamis, 20 Oktober 2011
Get Star Employee
Many leaders are frustrated when trying to develop Human Resources in the company. They always get a bad employee, less quality, unreliable and other negative attributes. Interestingly, though it was often out of the new employees, the leaders still do not get star employees as they wish. Do-do not they do not have the seeds of potential, but they are not able to develop human resource potential so that they ultimately sterile and did not have superior quality.
Articles and human resource development
Dale Carnegie has been hiring a lot of star employees. In fact, 43 people of whom eventually become a millionaire! How to get a prescription Carnegie star employees like that? Apparently the people who worked at Carnegie was at first also is a regular employee, but after years of work eventually became the star employee and became a millionaire. Why so? Dale Carnegie said, "Humans developed the same way as people mine gold. A few tons of dirt must be removed to get one ounce of gold. And you do not go to the gold mines to seek land instead? You go to the gold mines in search of gold. "
What does it mean? What are you looking for that's what you can! If we focus on the lack or weakness of our employees, then that is what we can. However, if we want to focus on the strengths, advantages, and its potential, then it is also what we can! If to this day we still have not found a star employee, it could be because we have not found the 'gold' in them. Look good, look good, dig their potential so they are a strength and excellence. Get rid of the land, not the person and look for gold. That's an effective way to get a star employee.
"We went to the gold mines in search of gold, not land. Get rid of the bad and look good. "
Similarly, the article How to Get Employees Stars. So and thank you.
Articles and human resource development
Dale Carnegie has been hiring a lot of star employees. In fact, 43 people of whom eventually become a millionaire! How to get a prescription Carnegie star employees like that? Apparently the people who worked at Carnegie was at first also is a regular employee, but after years of work eventually became the star employee and became a millionaire. Why so? Dale Carnegie said, "Humans developed the same way as people mine gold. A few tons of dirt must be removed to get one ounce of gold. And you do not go to the gold mines to seek land instead? You go to the gold mines in search of gold. "
What does it mean? What are you looking for that's what you can! If we focus on the lack or weakness of our employees, then that is what we can. However, if we want to focus on the strengths, advantages, and its potential, then it is also what we can! If to this day we still have not found a star employee, it could be because we have not found the 'gold' in them. Look good, look good, dig their potential so they are a strength and excellence. Get rid of the land, not the person and look for gold. That's an effective way to get a star employee.
"We went to the gold mines in search of gold, not land. Get rid of the bad and look good. "
Similarly, the article How to Get Employees Stars. So and thank you.
Rabu, 19 Oktober 2011
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You Deserve to be SUCCESSFUL
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a
future."
~Jeremiah 29:11~
...
One of the reason that is stopping people from becoming successful is because they are afraid to be successful.
You might be thinking in your head right now: "How is it possible that people are afraid to be successful? What is it that they are afraid of?"
People might worried that if they become rich, or famous, or too successful, than people might think that they will be boastful and arrogant, and that's why they prefer just to be mediocre rather than outstanding. In my personal opinion, actually money, fame and success are neither good or bad, they are neutral. It's the person who owns them who will decide whether to use it for good or not.
Another possible reason that stopping people from achieving their success is the "I don't deserve" mentality. Some people always have this questions asked on the back of their mind: " Who am I to be successful, happy, and beautiful ?" Well, who are you Not you to be ?
Embrace the positive energy and inspiration from this poem:
~by Miriam Williamson~
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,talented & fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the Glory of God that is within us.
It is not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our light shine,
we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Surely, Almighty GOD blesses all lives within careers of His children :)
-edited and inspired from Merry Riana-
Mario Teguh - Keberanian Cinta
Dibutuhkan keberanian yang besar untuk melangkah maju dan menyampaikan keaslian perasaan cinta Anda kepadanya.
Dan,
Dibutuhkan keberanian yang lebih besar untuk memintanya hidup berbahagia dan menua bersama Anda.
...
Tapi,
Dibutuhkan keberanian yang sangat mengagumkan besarnya untuk mundur dan membebaskan orang yang Anda cintai, jika
kebersamaan dengannya hanya akan memburukkan kehidupan Anda berdua.
Cinta adalah tenaga kehidupan, yang hanya berperan baik bagi jiwa-jiwa yang saling mentautkan hati dalam persahabatan yang mesra
dan penuh hormat.
Jika Anda diharuskan memilih antara cinta dan kebahagiaan, selalu pilihlah kebahagiaan.
Karena,
Di mana ada cinta, seharusnya ada kebahagiaan.
Yang selain itu, hanyalah illusi cinta.
Mario Teguh
Dan,
Dibutuhkan keberanian yang lebih besar untuk memintanya hidup berbahagia dan menua bersama Anda.
...
Tapi,
Dibutuhkan keberanian yang sangat mengagumkan besarnya untuk mundur dan membebaskan orang yang Anda cintai, jika
kebersamaan dengannya hanya akan memburukkan kehidupan Anda berdua.
Cinta adalah tenaga kehidupan, yang hanya berperan baik bagi jiwa-jiwa yang saling mentautkan hati dalam persahabatan yang mesra
dan penuh hormat.
Jika Anda diharuskan memilih antara cinta dan kebahagiaan, selalu pilihlah kebahagiaan.
Karena,
Di mana ada cinta, seharusnya ada kebahagiaan.
Yang selain itu, hanyalah illusi cinta.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - Terhadap Kekasaran orang
Kekasaran yang Anda lihat pada diri seseorang, adalah tanda ketidak-stabilan jiwa dan kacaunya rasa percaya diri.
Sehingga sesungguhnya, kekasaran adalah cara pribadi yang lemah untuk menyembunyikan kelemahannya.
Anda yang mengetahui hal ini, diamlah dalam kedamaian Anda, dan janganlah memperburuk perilakunya dengan menunjukkan bahwa
upayanya untuk meninggikan diri di atas Anda itu, tidak berdam...pak.
Kasihanilah mereka yang kasar.
Karena, walau mungkin mereka lebih tinggi pangkat dan kedudukannya, atau mungkin sedang lebih kaya daripada Anda saat ini,
sesungguhnya secara hakikat - Anda lebih terhormat.
Damailah dalam pengetahuan yang hakiki mengenai kebaikan Anda di hadapan Tuhan.
Akan datang masa di mana kedudukan dan kesejahteraan Anda menyamai ketinggian pekerti Anda.
Mario Teguh
Sehingga sesungguhnya, kekasaran adalah cara pribadi yang lemah untuk menyembunyikan kelemahannya.
Anda yang mengetahui hal ini, diamlah dalam kedamaian Anda, dan janganlah memperburuk perilakunya dengan menunjukkan bahwa
upayanya untuk meninggikan diri di atas Anda itu, tidak berdam...pak.
Kasihanilah mereka yang kasar.
Karena, walau mungkin mereka lebih tinggi pangkat dan kedudukannya, atau mungkin sedang lebih kaya daripada Anda saat ini,
sesungguhnya secara hakikat - Anda lebih terhormat.
Damailah dalam pengetahuan yang hakiki mengenai kebaikan Anda di hadapan Tuhan.
Akan datang masa di mana kedudukan dan kesejahteraan Anda menyamai ketinggian pekerti Anda.
Mario Teguh
Mario Teguh - menjadi dewasa
Adik-adikku yang lembut hatinya,
Tanda bahwa engkau telah mendekati kedewasaan yang berpotensi besar, adalah bahwa kegelisahanmu adalah tentang yang bisa kau
lakukan, tapi yang sedang kau tunda.
Orang yang telah kehilangan jiwanya, akan merasa damai dalam pengabaian tanggung-jawab dan penelantaran harapan orang tua.
...
Yang lebih tersesat lagi, adalah orang yang memandang baik keburukan yang dilakukannya.
Hidupmu masih panjang, dan tanpa harus saling bertaruh, engkau dan semua teman-temanmu akan pasti sampai di usia yang
menunjukkan hasil dari cara hidupmu hari ini.
Engkau memang harus mencoba banyak hal, tapi jangan kau gunakan hidupmu untuk mencoba-coba yang tidak baik.
Hormatilah dirimu.
Jangan kecewakan harapan baik orang tuamu.
Mario Teguh - Loving you all as always
Tanda bahwa engkau telah mendekati kedewasaan yang berpotensi besar, adalah bahwa kegelisahanmu adalah tentang yang bisa kau
lakukan, tapi yang sedang kau tunda.
Orang yang telah kehilangan jiwanya, akan merasa damai dalam pengabaian tanggung-jawab dan penelantaran harapan orang tua.
...
Yang lebih tersesat lagi, adalah orang yang memandang baik keburukan yang dilakukannya.
Hidupmu masih panjang, dan tanpa harus saling bertaruh, engkau dan semua teman-temanmu akan pasti sampai di usia yang
menunjukkan hasil dari cara hidupmu hari ini.
Engkau memang harus mencoba banyak hal, tapi jangan kau gunakan hidupmu untuk mencoba-coba yang tidak baik.
Hormatilah dirimu.
Jangan kecewakan harapan baik orang tuamu.
Mario Teguh - Loving you all as always
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